so today i decided to invite couple of my friends who i hadnt seen 4 years, and i tought its gona be great, couse those guyz were awesome, but they came and chatted betweeen themselves mostly, they didnt ask me any question so i feel sad and not needed... got not a lot friends, and i couldnt call them friends. idk..my life sucks.. when u look at them.. they look mature, high. I have no confidence couse i look way younger and i dont think they see me as a person as they are... Idk.. my life sucks..
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Hey, I can really empathize with you man. What probably happened was it might have been a little bit harder to break to ice than usual. I mean you haven't seen your friends in 4 YEARS, it should be more difficult to re-introduce yourself and re-mingle. You probably were a little more reserved than you should have been.
And if that's not the case, who cares ? If they genuinely don't want to hang around you, forget them--you're just hanging onto something that should be forgotten . I really feel your situation though... I don't know how I'm going to handle a situation like this when I come back from university 4 years from now and see my friends and how they've grown.
My best advice to you is to force yourself to be an extrovert and don't really care what other people think. There's so many nice people who probably have the same reservations as you do, and I'm positive if you just throw yourself out there without looking back you'll make a lot more stable relationships.
PM me if you want to talk about this more :p
And if that's not the case, who cares ? If they genuinely don't want to hang around you, forget them--you're just hanging onto something that should be forgotten . I really feel your situation though... I don't know how I'm going to handle a situation like this when I come back from university 4 years from now and see my friends and how they've grown.
My best advice to you is to force yourself to be an extrovert and don't really care what other people think. There's so many nice people who probably have the same reservations as you do, and I'm positive if you just throw yourself out there without looking back you'll make a lot more stable relationships.
PM me if you want to talk about this more :p
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People change, they become doucheeeeebags.
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Mr XK wrote:Hey, I can really empathize with you man. What probably happened was it might have been a little bit harder to break to ice than usual. I mean you haven't seen your friends in 4 YEARS, it should be more difficult to re-introduce yourself and re-mingle. You probably were a little more reserved than you should have been.
And if that's not the case, who cares ? If they genuinely don't want to hang around you, forget them--you're just hanging onto something that should be forgotten . I really feel your situation though... I don't know how I'm going to handle a situation like this when I come back from university 4 years from now and see my friends and how they've grown.
My best advice to you is to force yourself to be an extrovert and don't really care what other people think. There's so many nice people who probably have the same reservations as you do, and I'm positive if you just throw yourself out there without looking back you'll make a lot more stable relationships.
PM me if you want to talk about this more :p
Couldn't have said it any better myself.
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You're my friend <3
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Invite some strippers over and I'm sure that'd break the ice.
PS: you're a cutie <3
PS: you're a cutie <3
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Mr XK wrote:Hey, I can really empathize with you man. What probably happened was it might have been a little bit harder to break to ice than usual. I mean you haven't seen your friends in 4 YEARS, it should be more difficult to re-introduce yourself and re-mingle. You probably were a little more reserved than you should have been.
And if that's not the case, who cares ? If they genuinely don't want to hang around you, forget them--you're just hanging onto something that should be forgotten . I really feel your situation though... I don't know how I'm going to handle a situation like this when I come back from university 4 years from now and see my friends and how they've grown.
My best advice to you is to force yourself to be an extrovert and don't really care what other people think. There's so many nice people who probably have the same reservations as you do, and I'm positive if you just throw yourself out there without looking back you'll make a lot more stable relationships.
PM me if you want to talk about this more :p
Thanx a lot i feel lil better now, i think i just have to look forward and not try to change couse....there is noone like me..i must be myself so fk them all..ima gona be me- Darius , thanx <3
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They ignored u then they r dumb seriously who can ignore some like u ???
Don't be sad u don't deserve them u deserve better than them and I(Z4S) believe 1 day they will need u like a hungry dogs. .
Don't be sad u don't deserve them u deserve better than them and I(Z4S) believe 1 day they will need u like a hungry dogs. .
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You can't keep your old friends forever. When i failed a class a few years ago i had less and less contact with my old friends because i had to go to a different year. They went on holiday with each other etc. without me.
But you will find new friends, even if you think you haven't got any now.
But you will find new friends, even if you think you haven't got any now.
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Only a fucking dick wouldn't be your friend, you're like an awesome guy. You're so nice, when I had relationship problems you were always there helping me out. I know we don't even know eachother in real, but I feel like we're friends Cheer up man, you'll find that one best friend soon enough
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Darius you're a great guy. Anyone who wouldn't be your friend is making a big error in judgment. If I had a friend like you IRL I'd be a very lucky person.
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Stick at it, life throws you challenges but its your job to get back up and keep going!
Darius L T U- Member
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Thanx for support guyz, i really appreciate it <3. Love you all.
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Leave Cora and go make sum new friends, wastin time on here not gonna get u anywhere, they will all stab u in the back in the end!!!
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Courtney has been going crazy ever since de-rank
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Leave life and make friends with Death. That is the only truth you will ever knowCourtney wrote:Leave Cora and go make sum new friends, wastin time on here not gonna get u anywhere, they will all stab u in the back in the end!!!
/Melancholy
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Courtney wrote:Leave Cora and go make sum new friends, wastin time on here not gonna get u anywhere, they will all stab u in the back in the end!!!
I don't like that you used the word "all". All of us?...